Let me start with my husband had an affair over a year ago. im trying to trust him please read following?

today he went to a derby party , i met him there about 3 hours after party had started. while i was there i seen some women approach him physically which i didnt really mind at first. he did not introduce me to anyone and didnt offer me a drink which he was making another woman a drink when i first walked in,. so a woman started rubbing her across from him and calling out his name saying " come here i just spilled the drink all over me . she said this about 5 times while she was rubbing on her seductively and saying oh now it went in my dress. my husband didnt not say anything about this. i told the woman that i was his wife and she needs to have some respect. i also told her husband and my husband was telling me to calm down and in front of everyone made me look like i was the crazy one. i told him he shouldve handled it by telling her she needs to stop and have some respect before this situation gotten soo out of hand. the woman was drinking alchol but i think its still inappropiate especially when im trying to trust him again. i also believe that he made this woman comfortable enough to joke around with him in this manner before i got there. what do you think of this?